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The Homosexual Christian
Fr. Thomas Hopko
Many gay men and lesbians claim that the
Christian faith is the guiding rule of their lives. Some of them hold that their
sexual orientation is given by God, that it is good, and that there is nothing
wrong or sinful with their homosexual activities. These persons say that the
Bible and Church Tradition do not condemn homosexual behaviour, but have been
misinterpreted and misused, sometimes unknowingly and other times quite
willfully, by prejudiced and hostile people who hate homosexuals. Those who
believe in this way obviously want others to agree with them, and many are now
working hard to have their views accepted, particularly by fellow Christians and
Church leaders.
Other homosexual Christians hold that
their sexual orientation is not from God - except providentially, since the
Lord's plan inevitably involves human freedom and sin but derives from human
fault. While some of these people are not willing or able to identify the
specific reasons for their sexual feelings, though still affirming that they are
not good and are not to be indulged; others with the help of what they believe
to be sound biblical interpretation and accurate psychological analysis,
identify the source of their sexual orientation in faults and failures in their
family experiences, particularly in early childhood, and perhaps even before
that, which contribute to their sexual makeup. These people hold that they are
called by God to struggle against their homosexual tendencies as all people are
called to struggle against the sinful passions which they find within
themselves, while they work to heal the causes of their disorientation and
disease. Those who hold this position look to their fellow Christians,
especially their Church leaders, for support and assistance in their spiritual
struggle.
The Orthodox Position
Given the traditional Orthodox
understanding of the Old and New Testament scriptures as expressed in the
Church's liturgical worship, sacramental rites, canonical regulations and lives
and teachings of the saints, it is clear that the Orthodox Church identifies
solidly with those Christians, homosexual and heterosexual, who consider
homosexual orientation as a disorder and disease, and who therefore consider
homosexual actions as sinful and destructive.
According to Orthodox Christian witness
over the centuries, Biblical passages such as the following do not permit any
other interpretation but that which is obvious:
If a man lies with a male as with a woman,
both of them have committed an abomination . . . (Leviticus 20:13)
For this reason (i.e. their refusal to
acknowledge, thank and glorify God) God gave them up to dishonorable passions.
Their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural, and the men likewise gave
up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another,
men committing shameful acts with men and receiving in their own persons the due
penalty for their error. (Romans 1:26-27)
Do not be deceived; neither the sexually
immoral (or fornicators), nor idolators, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals (or
sodomites; literally those who have coitus, or who sleep, with men), nor
thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor robbers will inherit
the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were
sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the
Spirit of our God. (1 Corinthians 6:9-11)
Unwilled Sins
According to the Orthodox Church not all
sins are willful and voluntary, and not all acts of sin are the conscious fault
of those who do them; at least not at first. In a word, sin is not always
something for which the sinner himself or herself is necessarily culpable in a
complete and conscious way. There are sins of ignorance and passion, sins which
"work in our members," as St. Paul says, even against our rational and
conscious wills. (See Romans 6-8) These are the sins referred to in the Church's
prayers when the faithful beg God for forgiveness and pardon of sins which are
not only conscious, but unconscious; not only voluntary, but involuntary.
There are sins which are involuntary,
unwilled, unchosen; sins which overcome people and force them by irrational
impulses and compulsions, by weaknesses of the flesh, emotional drives and
misguided desires into actions which they themselves do not want, and often
despise and abhor - even when they are engaging in them. These are known
traditionally as the sins of passion. The fact that these sins are not freely
chosen do not make them any less sinful. To sin means to miss the mark, to be
off the track, to deviate, to defile, to transgress . . . whether or not the act
is consciously willed and purposefully enacted; and whether or not the offender
personally is freely and fully at fault.
Redeemed Sinners
According to Orthodox Church Tradition,
Christians are redeemed sinners. They are human beings who have been saved from
sickness and sin, delivered from the devil and death by God's grace through
faith in Jesus by the Holy Spirit's power: "and such were some of
you." (1 Cor. 6:10) They are baptized into Christ and sealed with the
Spirit in order to live God's life in the Church. They witness to their faith by
regular participation in liturgical worship and eucharistic communion,
accompanied by continual confession, repentance and the steadfast struggle
against every form of sin, voluntary and involuntary, which attempts to destroy
their lives in this world and in the age to come.
The homosexual Christian is called to a
particularly rigorous battle. His or her struggle is an especially ferocious
one. It is not made any easier by the mindless, truly demonic hatred of those
who despise and ridicule those who carry this painful and burdensome cross; nor
by the mindless, equally demonic affirmation of homosexual activity by its
misguided advocates and enablers.
Like all temptations, passions and sins,
including those deeply, and oftentimes seemingly indelibly embedded in our
nature by our sorrowful inheritance, homosexual orientation can be cured and
homosexual actions can cease. With God all things are possible. When homosexual
Christians are willing to struggle, and when they receive patient, compassionate
and authentically loving assistance from their families and friends - each of
whom is struggling with his or her own temptations and sins; for no one is
without this struggle in one form or another, and no one is without sin but God
- the Lord guarantees victory in ways known to Himself. The victory, however,
belongs only to the courageous souls who acknowledge their condition, face their
resentments, express their angers, confess their sins, forgive their offenders
(who always include their parents and members of their households), and reach
out for help with the genuine desire to be healed. Jesus himself promises that
the saintly heroes who "persevere to the end" along this "hard
way which leads to life" will surely "be saved." (Matt. 7:13;
24:13)
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